Are you part of the blogging community?

We all see it all the time.  Bloggers discussing the book blogging community.  I began to think about it.  Who is the book blogging community and what make you or me actually apart of it??   I often wonder.. am I in this community?  It seems to me that sometimes this community are the cliques of bloggers who all know each other and have these big blogs. They get into the drama.. comment on the drama on their blog but don't actually say what said drama is.  Since they don't say what it is.. and I missed it.. because maybe I am not in this "community" I feel like I can't even join in because I don't know what even happened!!
 
I saw someone recently said "they felt like they are distant from the blogging community and don't know how it happened??" (Which is what inspired this post) I thought.. wait.. am I in this community?  Where is it?  What do I need to do to get in???  I have never really seen what is the definition of being considered "in" the blogging community. People say the book blogging community is going down hill.  So I decided to come up with my own definition for all of us so we don't feel left out of this community. I personally don't think it's gone downhill.  The book bloggers I deal with are friendly and fun.  If you do any of the following you are in this book blogging community, so have fun while you're here! 

Did you answer yes to any of these questions??  Then you are in! Do you have any more things to add to this list??